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Title: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on September 21, 2010, 10:29:37 PM
Its only been about 2 months of waiting so far but it seems like forever waiting on this permit. Im running out of things to do to pass the time. :P
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on September 21, 2010, 10:31:46 PM
My wife has been waiting 4-1/2 months here in NCCo...  :(
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on September 21, 2010, 11:00:40 PM
Im in ncc also just lower ncc . I was told a few weeks ago that they were starting  to work on the july applicants  ???. I couldnt take the wait if I were you I would have to make a call to see whats up. I was hoping to get it around the 3 month area but you have me wondering now  :-\ . Keep us posted!
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on September 23, 2010, 11:17:05 PM
I inquired by Email... my wife's permit application "is still in the investigation stages with the Attorney General’s office."
Oh, well... at least it wasn't denied (yet)!
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on September 23, 2010, 11:58:20 PM
Atleast you know whats going on now  ;D. Its still entirely to long of a wait.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: NFD929 on October 04, 2010, 05:46:06 PM
For those of you that are waiting, I applied back the first or second week of January and just got mine in August.  Entirely too long I agree, but there is not a faster way that I know of. 8)
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 05, 2010, 12:05:07 AM
For those of you that are waiting, I applied back the first or second week of January and just got mine in August.  Entirely too long I agree, but there is not a faster way that I know of. 8)
Congrats! That is a long wait. Glad you got it though  8)
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 21, 2010, 09:29:44 PM
Good news! the wait is getting closer to being over. Had a call today from the ag"s office and we talked a bit. Theres only 3 people that work on the ccp"s in the state and thats not their full time job. I have a small problem with my app but im glad its getting worked on   ;D. I wish the state could get the system more streamlined and have more help for the folks that do all the checking.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: DefendUSA on October 22, 2010, 06:02:11 PM
I handed in my paperwork May 4, 2010. I havent heard from anyone. Today is October 22. I live in lower NCC. I called and was told the AG didnt reccommend or deny my app. They sent it to the Judge for his decision. Now Im nervous. What does that mean and what is taking so long?
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Radnor on October 22, 2010, 06:52:58 PM
NORMAL!  dont worry.

You will (should) get a letter from the DOJ stating the same.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 22, 2010, 08:54:25 PM
I THINK  its the investigators job to make sure everything is ok and no previous problems that would deny a person not to recieve the ccp . Not to actually give or deny the permit. Then the judge has to approve or deny with the investigators findings in mind.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: DefendUSA on October 23, 2010, 05:52:16 PM
My brother in law applied May 10th. He just got his CCW permit Oct. 21. He lives in Kent County and is happier than a woodpecker in a lumber yard. Now Im just waiting for mine to get here.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: czer on October 24, 2010, 11:24:48 PM
DefendUSA, I applied April 15, just got mine October 11. I don't think they called any of my references (or, at least no one told me), and I did not get a letter from any office until I got the permit in the mail. If your timing is the same as mine, you may be just a week or two away.... Be patient - after all, what choice do you have?
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on October 24, 2010, 11:28:01 PM
My wife's app went in on May 5th. Not a peep from anyone: no letter from the AG, and nobody has called her references.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 25, 2010, 02:12:19 AM
My wife's app went in on May 5th. Not a peep from anyone: no letter from the AG, and nobody has called her references.
I think your wifes permit is going to set a new slow speed record  :D
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 27, 2010, 01:35:43 AM
Does anyone know how long it ( roughly) takes from the time the investigators call your references till you get your permit as long as theres no problems?
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: g23 on October 27, 2010, 01:45:39 PM
I'm not sure since none of my references were called.  sorry I couldn't help. At least if they are calling you know that they are working on it and its not just sitting in a pile.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: DefendUSA on October 28, 2010, 03:08:12 AM
I called today as per instruction and the lady told me that my permit was approved by the judge. She said I should have it by Saturday. I dont count my chickens until the eggs hatch but its a good feeling to know its coming. Saturday will be 25 weeks and 4 days since I applied.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 28, 2010, 10:14:11 AM
I called today as per instruction and the lady told me that my permit was approved by the judge. She said I should have it by Saturday. I dont count my chickens until the eggs hatch but its a good feeling to know its coming. Saturday will be 25 weeks and 4 days since I applied.
Congrats! That must be a good feeling to get the waiting game over with. Do you know if they called any of your references? If so how long ago has it been since they did?
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: DefendUSA on October 28, 2010, 09:49:07 PM
No, none of my references were called and I never received any letters. I just kept waiting and after 3 months I called every 4 weeks. Thats what the lady in the NCC prothonatarys office told me to do. Her name is Dale, yes it is a she. She was very nice and helpful. I think if you treat her nice and butter her up a little she might put your application on the top of the pile :) You never know.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on October 28, 2010, 11:12:07 PM
Thanks for the info  ;)
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on November 09, 2010, 11:01:09 PM
Good news ! sorta! I got my permit today but theres a problem. I tried to call the po but no answer. I left a message and didnt get a call back yet. Who can I call to get an error fixed  ??? It will involve issuing a new permit.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Radnor on November 10, 2010, 08:35:50 PM
problem????
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on November 10, 2010, 08:57:23 PM
problem????
Yes. My father and I applied the same time. Well he got a letter with a permit . The problem was it had my info on the permit with his picture. But the letter was addressed to him  ::). I managed to get someone on the phone today and I have to send it back. . It seems somehow our info has gotten mixed up. Its all supposed to get straightened out when they get the permit back . Then they can swith the pics and everything should be ok.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on November 11, 2010, 11:52:54 AM
Hell, put that baby in your wallet for a few days and it will fall apart.. then just switch pictures LOL.   (kidding!)

That's great that things are pretty much on their way but sucks you had to send it back etc.  Hope it gets resolved quickly!!

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Radnor on November 11, 2010, 12:54:14 PM
Good to hear that was the problem.  PITA for you though.  I instruct people I deal with to put their name on the back of the photos. 

But, if both of you are John Smith....
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on November 11, 2010, 08:35:31 PM
moosie , that would probably work lol. I should have it back next week I hope  :-\. :-\
radnor, thats a good ideal with the names on the pics. I could see it if we had the same names but the only one thats the same is the last name. I hope they get it straightened out because when I called they were looking for my dads folder but said they couldnt find it  ???. It seems to me that its so confusing their confused themselves.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on November 30, 2010, 08:28:39 PM
My "correct"  permit finally showed up in the mail today  ;D ;D ;D. My dad got his on 11-13 . Not to bad on the time line we sent our app in 7-28-10 .
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on November 30, 2010, 08:32:34 PM
looks I will be making a trip to staples soon to get some shrinking done , It wont fit in any compartment in my wallet.  :-\
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on November 30, 2010, 10:39:55 PM
YAY!!!  Congrats on FINALLY getting YOUR permit!

Yup.. Staples is a necessary trip.  I can't believe they don't make them more sturdy OR that they don't just incorporate the drivers license and the CCW.  I guess if they were to revoke your permit (God forbid) then potentially you'd still have that license that says you're permitted do carry.

ugh.  what a cluster!! 

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on November 30, 2010, 11:19:04 PM
I bought a 5-pack of DIY laminating pouches from Staples. So far, I've used three of them: for my permit, my wife's, and my best friend's.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 01, 2010, 12:56:33 AM
and Moosies....    lol
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 01, 2010, 11:57:43 PM
Well today felt a little wierd. I always felt like my shirt was coming up ,so I found myself pulling my outer shirt down ALOT . Also had my super tuck on since 5:30 am and its rubbing my hip some so I may slide it some to see what feels best . I did get to staples and get a copy shrunk and laminated . It atleast fits in my wallet now ;D.  The first public place I entered was a wawa to get coffee. Funny thing was the 1st person I seen was a leo standing there getting his coffee . Felt a little strange but buy the time the day was over I didnt feel like everyone was looking at me. I know things are habit ( atleast with me) so I want to make it a habit to carry that way if I ever need it ( god forbid) I wont be standing there while realizing its not on me.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 02, 2010, 12:28:02 AM
That's funny... I felt like I was doing the same thing all day yesterday!! I too was wearing a super tuck and felt like you could see it out the bottom of my jacket.  I kept fidgeting with the right hand side of my jacket (strong side & carry side).  One of the things I've started doing was when I feel like this is happening, i duck into the ladies room and look.  I am then reassured that it is NOT showing and I can relax a little more. 

My husband and I also have a code word if I am feeling a little exposed... "Have you seen Betty?"  he glances down to see if he can see anything... and then has always replied "Nope".  LOL  Betty sounds a lot better than GUN in a crowd or in public. 

Muleman, was today your first day carrying concealed? If so, you're off to a good start.  You didnt drop your gun on the floor while bending over to pick something up, you didnt shoot anyone, and no one said, "Hey, Mister... your gun is sticking out!"

:)  Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 02, 2010, 12:36:13 AM
LOL LOL. moosie, better keep betty buttoned up  ;D. Yes today was my 1st day carrying concealed. Thanks for the story and moral booster.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on December 02, 2010, 10:47:15 AM
I've been doing the corporate thing lately, dressed business casual. Nobody (and no written policy) says I can't carry, my permit is valid, and the workplace isn't off-limits by law... but I can't exactly ask, "Is it OK if I carry my gun?"
I carry my S&W 642 in a little Uncle Mike's pocket holster. I felt really self-conscious about the bulge in my Dockers for a few days, but I've come to realize that nobody else notices it.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 02, 2010, 01:24:43 PM
I've been pleasantly surprised that I can go and show houses all day long and meet with a "brazillion" clients and no one has noticed.  I actually find it easier to get dressed for work and carry than to get dressed casually and carry... guess business clothes conceal better! LOL

just for the record, it wasnt me who bent over to pick something up in Home Depot and had my firearm fall out. No, honestly it wasn't! But I do know someone that happened to. Goober.  I did almost drop Betty in the commode one time, but luckily I've never done that again.  :)

Muleman, you'll have to let us know how day 2 went! :)

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Radnor on December 02, 2010, 03:19:12 PM
Muleman,

It gets easier with time.  I know I felt the same way when I first started carrying.  Now, dont go anywhere without it (except work).

Oldgray,

Just tell em, "You're glad to see 'em..."


I've not carried at work yet. Well.... While on the clock.  If I run in and do a small job ON MY TIME, then yes I do.  Dont usually have clothes on that will hide a full size gun.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 02, 2010, 09:39:36 PM
The bulge thing has me lmao  ! Moosie everything went well today for me.I even made it in some stores christmas shopping today  .I dont think I checked my shirt as much lol. I onlt take it off for work. But I want to ask about carrying it at work due to some of the things and folks I run into . My job puts me in positions where people get angry with me at times. I never know when im going to run into a bad scene. I am afraid I will be told no just because its easier to tell me no and let me get hurt rather than worry about getting sued or something. Some people just dont understand things when they sit behind a desk all day.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: oldgraygeek on December 03, 2010, 01:39:21 AM
The bulge thing has me lmao  ! Moosie everything went well today for me.I even made it in some stores christmas shopping today  .I dont think I checked my shirt as much lol. I onlt take it off for work. But I want to ask about carrying it at work due to some of the things and folks I run into . My job puts me in positions where people get angry with me at times. I never know when im going to run into a bad scene. I am afraid I will be told no just because its easier to tell me no and let me get hurt rather than worry about getting sued or something. Some people just dont understand things when they sit behind a desk all day.

Nobody gets angry with me at work (not that I know if, anyway), but I don't want to ask about whether I can lawfully carry my firearm. Right now, I'm filling in at one company. My former employer put me there, and I'm paid through a third company. None of these companies have said anything to me about carrying.

The first company, where I'm actually working, has made it clear that they intend to offer me a full-time position. If they do, I plan to do something I've never done before: ask for all the terms of employment, including the rules & regulations, before I agree to take the job. I will review them with my wife (who has a law degree) and/or my actual lawyer before I agree to work there.

And I might just decline their offer, if there is a "no firearms" clause in the employee agreement. If I do choose to decline, I'll tell them why... after I've left the building for the last time, because I really don't want to end up on Action News.

As for your situation, I don't think concerns about someone else getting angry at you should determine whether you have the right to protect yourself. I think the question is: will YOU get uncontrollably angry? If you've passed the background checks here in DE and obtained your permit, you have probably answered that question to your own satisfaction... I know I'm satisfied. Carry your gun.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 03, 2010, 01:51:15 AM
I totally agree with OldGrayGeek!! 

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission.  If there is no mention of it in you employee handbook, plead ignorance. 

Just my two cents.

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 03, 2010, 02:09:38 AM
Im not one to worry about others feelings to much in a suituation such as this . The people getting angry at me is the public due to my job dutys. Its not all the time but when im called to a residence theres always a chance for confrontation .( certain neighborhoods are not places I like to hang around). I was at a job a few weeks back to recover some stoled things of ours and when I showed up the police were investigating a drive by shooting at the house I was going to  :o There were bullet holes down the side of the house. Its hard to say what would happen if I were a few munites earlier  ??? This isnt at every job by no means but it does happen often enough.  Their WAS a sign at the entrance to my work and it read no firearms or fireworks etc.etc. I havent seen the sign for a LONG while ( years). I have been told the policy is no firearms  ???. I just wonder about if you have a permit? I run into quite a few local leo so I may ask and see what they think. Im not sure of the reprocutions if I was carrying and something happened ,or the " higher ups" found out about it. Dont get me wrong If I had to chose my job or coming home at night well.... thats easy. But I dont want to feel like im sneaking around.  I will have to search through the handbook to see if I can find anything about it in there.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Radnor on December 03, 2010, 01:22:30 PM
There was a sign and now it's gone.....  Must be OK then.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: czer on December 03, 2010, 03:17:47 PM
I have also recently started to carry a couple weeks ago, not all the time, but enough to try it in a number of different situations, shopping, doing errands, walking alone at night for exercise, etc. I do not work in an office but travel alot and work from home. I don't know if I can adequately describe how I feel when I carry. There certainly is a fear of embarrasment should I get caught, even a "thrill", like when I was a kid and was doing something my parents might not approve of. I have gotten my nervous ticks down to few...When I first get out of the car, I quick touch my side to make sure my gun is seated in the holster properly (I am afraid that it might have come out a little bit while sitting and then have it pop out when I get out). I have compromised on the bulge-fear by carrying a P-32 Kel-Tec in a DeSantis IWB (or in the pocket) when I am the most concerned since it hardly prints at all; and my Kahr CW9 in another DeSantis IWB, as my usual carry when I feel I have enough cover. A head game I play with myself is to carry my cell phone on my hip under my shirt or jacket, in its leather carry case, and periodically look down at it and say to myself - "See, that thing prints twice as much as my guns do. No one has ever questioned it, you have nothing to worry about." I have also rehersed how I would react if someone did see and question the fact that I had a gun. Someone on this site gave the best advice - just behave like everything is normal. If I feel someone needs a response from me, I plan to say, "Don't worry, I have a permit." and go on with my business.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Hawkeye on December 03, 2010, 05:02:04 PM
Quite a few things going on in this thread.  Here are some random thoughts, some of which I have said before. 

I do not have the problem of trying to decide if I carry to work or not, it is against the law.  I work in a prison and I have gotten used to leaving at the end of my shift.  I cannot even have a gun in my car in the parking lot. Of course the standing joke is that if something goes seriously wrong and we cannot get to the armory (which is outside the fence) just go to the parking lot, there are more guns there anyway (but not mine, no seriously, not mine).

Dealing with angry people at work?  See the above paragraph!

As for printing or exposing your firearm, like he said, just play it off as if it were a normal everyday thing (which it is). Your reaction goes a long way in determining what their reaction might be. I would not worry unless it actually fell to the ground.

I have changed the way I carry accessories.  I have moved my wallet to my left side and I now carry my cell phone on the left as well.  I am aware some like to carry their cell phone or even hang keys from their belt on their strong side to camouflage any bulge their firearm might make but I have chosen to go the other way.

I figure there are two main types of encounters I may have that could go the wrong way at any time.  The first is of course an encounter with a bad guy.  I want my cell phone accessible with my weak hand as my strong hand very well could be busy holding my firearm or at a minimum, moving my strong hand to a “ready” position.  The other encounter would be with an LEO.  You NEVER KNOW how an LEO will react and if I am ever in a position where I feel the need to inform an LEO that I am armed the last thing I want to do is to instinctively reach to my gun side going for my wallet.  Of course before I would even move after informing an LEO that I am armed I would first ask him “What do you want me to do?”  But as I stated, you never know how they will react. He could say everything is fine or I could be looking at the business end of a .357 sig.

Czer mentioned playing a “head game” to reassure himself and this is important.  Obtaining the proper mindset for carrying a firearm is important and this is a good tactic towards achieving that goal.

I think I have rambled on enough now.   Back to Frontierville.  I…..must…..plant…..more…..corn, oh and ribbons. Anyone have ribbons?
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 03, 2010, 09:50:08 PM
WOW. You all have made me think of things I wouldnt of thought of.  It is always a good ideal to think things through in advance. I also agree attitude means ALOT! Moosie I said before what I did for a living, is your memory slipping lol. Just kidding. I am a electrical lineman for a power company. What bothers me is when I go to bad neighborhoods to shut off electric for whatever reason. Sometimes people get shut off then they tamper and turn it back on themselves. Then we take the meter, then they steal a neighbors and plug it in their house. Then I go take the meter and dissconnect them at the pole . Alot of times they lock their gate and leave dogs out to try to stop us.  But once they have stolen meters and they dont want to be shut off its hard to say what they will do. I have been cursed, surrounded and more ,my old boss was in a fist fight once just for turning off their electric. You never know which person will snap and we cant get the leo"s for every job. I find myself sometimes getting my partner over their fence and I watch the door for them to come out when he shuts it off, their face is priceless when they come out lol . But what Im saying is their not good people and its usually in bad areas, its something I worry about. I looked in the handbook today and didnt see anything anout carrying  ;D
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: czer on December 04, 2010, 02:01:42 AM
Jeez, they ought to REQUIRE you to carry! If a LEO is not with you, what are YOU supposed to do? Hope it pays well....
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 04, 2010, 12:27:23 PM
Yeah, well, Muleman... my mind has been slipping for some time now LOL  I do remember now that you mention it.  :) 

Yup, I'd be carrying if I were you. Sounds like you have every reason to do so!  Of course, one could also argue that should you find yourself in a situation like that to let the local PD escort you etc..  not something i'd want to chance sitting there waiting but hopefully your company doesnt have anything spelled out regarding carrying.

Hawkeye, more power to you!!  Not something I think I'd want to ever do.  But glad that someone is!!  You bring up a very very good point.  Mindset when carrying is HUGE (in my opinion). It is a very large responsibilty to carry and unless you are thinking ahead for whatever may come that day, you might find yourself in a mess!  I encourage everyone to give it some thought about "what would you do" BEFORE you get into that situation!  Love the idea of having your cell on your weak side.  I dont carry my cell on my belt, it's in my pocket or my God forsaken pocket book (good luck finding it with nothing in my hands and in no hurry LOL).  Something for me to think about and change. 

Good discussion!!  Thanks.

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Sigarms12 on December 04, 2010, 01:09:02 PM
.. what I mean is dirtbags shove their guns down your pants.  Ok, dirtbags and Sig.  LOL  Moosie

Moosie how many times have I told you not to mention my derringer.... Uh I mean Desert Eagle.......Yea that's what I meant.......... LOL.
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: muleman88 on December 17, 2010, 09:22:33 PM
Well heres an update. A permit holder I work with ask the hr dept about their policy on guns .(Personally I wasnt going to ask). He was told their wasnt any policy, but now they "happen" to be in the process of writing a policy on guns. From what I understand they will allow people to lock up their shotguns in their vehicle " because alot of guys go hunting right after work" . But I am getting the feeling carrying will be frowned on. Thats what I am gathering as well as a few things I have been told. I was thinking about putting something togeather to take to hr so they could see the good reasons to carry. If you all have any ideals that could help my cause please post or send them to me. I was thinking their may be something somewhere that has these things already listed  ???
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Moosie on December 18, 2010, 01:40:12 AM
.. what I mean is dirtbags shove their guns down your pants.  Ok, dirtbags and Sig.  LOL  Moosie

Moosie how many times have I told you not to mention my derringer.... Uh I mean Desert Eagle.......Yea that's what I meant.......... LOL.


LOL, how did I miss this?  Yeah...and it just keeps going up in calibre each time you tell the story about it right? 

Moosie
Title: Re: This is a long wait
Post by: Sigarms12 on December 18, 2010, 11:52:41 AM
I dont know what your talking about its a S&W 500