I use to get them too. Guess she figures if I'm out, I'm packin.
The other thing I tell her is, "It's a wonderful day when I can put it
away in the SAME condition I got it out."
My wife asked me that a few days after the permit arrived. We were leaving to pick up a takeout pizza, and I slipped my J-frame (in an Uncle Mike's pocket holster) into my Dockers.
She asked, sarcastically, "Do you expect to be in a firefight between here and the pizzeria?"
I replied, "No, and I'm not expecting to have a car accident either. I'll tell you what: I'll leave the gun here, and you don't fasten your seat belt."
That was the last time she ever objected to me carrying a gun.