Moved to DE 3 years ago to go to nursing school here. Just graduated a few weeks ago, so after my boards, was gonna find a job and settle down somewhere.
Like some folks here, the biggest obstacle for me to get my DECCW are those 5 references. I'm sure this was intentional. Being a law-abiding citizen with zero criminal or even traffic violations isn't enough. I guess being surrounded by MD,DC, and NJ, DE would be somewhat affected by their influence.
I feel like my best course of action is to take advantage of the work-around regarding non-DE residents, and move back to MD, then apply for the God simple Florida permit which would allow me to carry in DE. Since its impossible to get a MD permit anyways, at least I'll be as disarmed as every other non-criminal.
Not trying to be unkind or anything, but is there any reason that any of your fellow former classmates wouldn't sign for this? I do realize that it is a touchy subject, but it's worth a try. Probably the most beneficial part of that is the fact that they've known you for multiple years, as opposed to someone that you just met at WaWa, or online. Also, "families" tend to be a good source, so if you could get a husband/wife combo or something like that -- that covers a lot of ground.
That being said, MOST people that I know have absolutely no idea about me having any firearms, let alone me carrying a firearm. It's not that I am ashamed of it or anything, I just try not bringing it up. Also, in conversations with these folks, I tend not to mention what color underwear that I have on. So, I understand any reluctance that you may have with discussing this with classmates, instructors, professors, and/or staff.
Are you currently working? If so, consider how long that you have been there, and whether any of those folks may be candidates. Here's the thing, you may not want them to know, but if you are already working there now, your employer MAY be contacted during the review of your application. So, if they don't know now, they may know later. If that's the case, perhaps some folks there can be of assistance to you.